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Be honest with me…

Are you on the email lists of dozens of coaches,
and other experts in the personal growth industry?

Admit it…

Is your hard drive full of THEIR free downloadable
books, audios, webinars and reports?

Tell me…

Do you pop their emails right open every time
you see another juicy headline?

Do you notice something?

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Do they all seem to advocate a different strategy
or habit that seems to be working for them?

How are all those strategies working for you?

Do you know what you’re doing when you
keep looking around trying to find that next
hit of inspiration or how to do it RIGHT?

Here’s the thing…

Even though those people are wonderful and
those resources are great, and they can be a
good source of inspiration, they are also holding
you back from something critically important.

That something…

Being able to hear the inspiration of your own

You can’t hear your own voice.

You can’t hear your own guidance.

You can’t be you if you can’t really hear YOU.

And it’s not as if you don’t already know
WHAT to do.

You’re brilliant and badass, but…

You and I both know, it’s really noisy and easily
distracting out there.

And if you keep looking out there,
you’ll keep doubting yourSELF, telling yourself
this lie that you’ve just got to have all your
sh*t together (as if they’ve all got all their sh*t
together), and waiting, procrastinating, judging
and second guessing your work in the world.

You hear it all the time in the coaching community.

That clients are whole, resourceful and wise.

But we doubt the hell outta that truth for ourselves.

And thus we end up in the self improvement trap.

Trying to find the magic pill.

That perfect email headline, or that magic social
media plan, or the perfect words to say on our

And we keep tweaking and keep changing things
and keep looking outside and then we wonder
why our health is going to shit and we’ve
got headaches and other ailments we’re chasing
around our bodies.

And for what?

To be liked, loved, acceptable, marketable?

To avoid failure, judgment, criticism… pain?

To not get it WRONG?

To not fuck up?

You can’t do this if you don’t listen to your
own intuition.

Now I’m not saying that sharpening skills
in your craft isn’t essential but when you
keep doing it in fear that you don’t know
enough or you’re not good enough, or not
ready, you just make the road longer and harder.

God/Source/the Universe (whatever you
identify with), doesn’t want or need you to

You must take the time to align with who
you are first and then take action from
that place of WHO YOU ARE… (GOD)DESS.

You are love, not fear. 

Know that you’ve become something
great and it’s time to go with the flow
just as you are now.

You have the most brilliant guidance
on the planet within you.

And I know it sounds all woo-woo.

But you must stop to listen.

I’m so tired of hearing about women
who work out everyday, eat healthy,
are making good money and yet
still succumb to things like cancer
and other dis-eases.

I only share this because I know it
has been true for me.

No I don’t have a disease, but I’ve
had my moments of making myself
sick all in the name of achievement.

It’s not worth it if you can’t enjoy it.

That doesn’t leave us at our best
for our clients or our businesses.

And we need not wait for some dis-ease
to give us permission to stop pushing
and resisting.

And if that means unsubscribing from
most of those email lists immediately…


Even if that means you unsubscribe
from mine, do it.

It’ll sting a little cause I love my tribe,
and I love sharing good stuff sometimes
you need to hear, but if you can’t hear
your own guidance, let me go too.

In service to who you really are,


9 Ways To Create Income With Your Signature System


As entrepreneurs we are a seriously multi-passionate group of people.

And as holistic/woo-woo/heart-centered/spiritual people (whatever works), being multi-passionate is one of our greatest assets and it’s also where we stub our toes.

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We can be passionate about a lot of things when it comes to helping others change their lives and we’re often torn about leaving anything out of our offerings.

Or on the opposite side there’s a feeling that the more “stuff” we offer the more money we’ll make.

If you look at the websites of many coaches you’re likely to see a collage of “stuff:” something downloadable here, 1-on-1 coaching there, some low cost workshops over there, some products over there, maybe an intuitive reading there… all on different topics.

The problem is that your collage of “stuff” is making it hard for your ideal clients to get how you can help them.

And further, it eats away at your credibility.

They’re likely thinking “She’s got a million and one things goin’ on, how good can she really be.”

You’re scattered and they’re scattered trying to piece “What you do” together.

And creating content for all that “stuff” takes up way too much of your precious time.

So how do we solve this issue?

Simple. Apply your many passions and skills to the service of just ONE problem, then create a step-by-step solution to that problem.

That’s what your Juicy Signature System is.

With a system clients immediately get what you do and see how you can help them get what they want.

Have you noticed that when you’re presented with a “step by step system” you’re much more likely to make a purchase?

Of course you are even if you don’t consciously realize that it’s more attractive to you. And that’s because most people need order and flow.

A system makes it much quicker and easier for people to solve their problem, especially when compared to trying to figure out on their own what to do first, second, etc.

It’s like following a recipe for a new meal you’ve been wanting to try.

Following the recipe makes it 10 times easier to get to the end result of a delicious meal.

And after you try it a few times with the recipe, soon you’ll be able to make that recipe your own or add to it in ways that you feel inspired.

By turning your service into a system you’re telling your clients, “I’ve done the work for you, so you don’t have to.”

People love that approach and quickly respond by purchasing your offer.

We aren’t too keen on making mistakes so following a system gives us some measure of stability and reassurance that others have had success following the same steps.

Best of all, once you’ve got your juicy signature system, you now have endless avenues with which to add big paydays to your business without a ton of extra work.

You can launch an offer in a matter of weeks – and sometimes even in 1 day as opposed to taking months to write an ebook to sell.

And it’s all possible because you’ve got your unique branded system already created!

So let’s get your juices flowing with a quick checklist of 9 income streams you can create from just one juicy signature system.

  1. High end-private coaching program. If you’re just starting out in business or you’ve just created your new signature system this is the very first place to start. It’s one of the quickest and simplest income streams to implement.
  2. VIP Days, in person or virtual. A VIP day is an intimate, laser focused, quick way of working where you’ll take your client through your entire system in one day or a couple of days. This is one results oriented way of working clients will love.
  3. Group programs. Once you’ve taken a few clients through your signature system, you can easily transform it into programs to serve groups of your ideal clients at one time.
  4. Teleseminar series. Use an intensive telephone course to walk your clients through your signature system step-by-step. Clients love intensives because it gets good momentum going and who doesn’t love seeing results quickly. Intensives usually run anywhere from 4 to 8 weeks. Don’t forget to include a Q & A call! People love to feel that they can get their questions answered after they’ve been given a lot to learn and apply.
  5. Preview Teleseminar. Use your juicy signature system to fill your next program! Focus on the questions your clients really want answered – your best content. Remember to focus on what they want, not what you think they need. Meet them where their minds are at. They’ll get what they “need” when they work with you.
  6. Bootcamps. You can create 60 to 90 day bootcamp programs that include some focused support. You might include laser coaching; Q & A calls; homework buddies, mastermind groups, accountability forms, etc.
  7. Certification programs. Teaching and licensing others in your unique signature system is a huge way to create revenue while you sleep. This is a more advanced choice of course. You really have to be good at what you do on this one.
  8. In-person seminars or workshops. There’s nothing like a live in the flesh experience! And you’ll get new clients when you include your offer of how they can work with you further.
  9. Irresistible Free Offer. Create a free offer on your website using your system. You will build your list and inside your free offer will be an invitation to work with you which leads to more revenue for you.

Now that you know how to re-purpose your valuable expertise you’ll want to make sure you actually have a Juicy Signature System clients will pay for!

The Biz Love Doctor is in and I can help you create your system, step-by-step, with  The Business Love Doctor’s Trainings.

Sh*t Life Coaches Say & It’s My Birthday (Hey That Rhymes!)


Hey, hey it’s my birthday! I’m 39 years young today!

Somehow I feel like my 40th is going to be more bad-ass
but I can’t poo on another moment of life!

Who knows what could happen in this day!

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You can bet there will be some dancin’ though…

There’s so many options for fun, frivolity and EASE,
if I choose…

That sounds like some shit a Life Coach would say…
(if I choose)… hmmm…

This brings me to the hilarious video I’m not sure
how I found.

It had me crackin’ up, especially around the 3:16 mark
(check it out).

I’m mostly laughing because I’ve totally said this shit
(and to all of you either through my posts or coaching
with me).

But as I watched them say it and poke fun at “coaching
language” it just seems sooooo hilarious. 

Even though saying those things creates breakthroughs,
AHA moments, clarity and gets results, I can’t help but
to feel how cliche it is all at the same time.

But hey, if you can’t laugh at yourself or what you do
from time to time, then you’re in the wrong business

I know I’m in the right business and on purpose!


I look forward to how my “coach-ese” will evolve.

Next time this video will be about Shit Coach JeeJee says!

Ok… don’t wait on that… 

Well here’s the video. Enjoy!

These chicks are hilarious!

Shout out to Andrea Owen over at http://yourkickasslife.com and Amy E. Smith over at http://thejoyjunkie.com

Why Is It Necessary To Sell Bliss? Why Can’t You Give It Away?


I was listening to an interview with well known spiritual leader Osho.

This guy is pretty funny, has the most fantastic quotes and is really an inspiration to many.

In this interview he was asked, “Why is it necessary to sell bliss? Why can’t you give it away?

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To this he responded:

“Because anything that is just given away is really not taken by anyone. 

The higher the cost the better people will keep it and save it in their treasuries.

Give it free and it has no value because people don’t understand value unless it has a price.

They understand price, they don’t understand value.”

Not satisfied with this answer the interviewer continued: “Why does bliss have to be sold?

Again he responded:

“The higher the price you pay for something, bigger is your estimate about it.

If bliss, ecstacy, etc, were like water and were free, no one would be able to see their value.

You don’t know the real value of water unless you have been thirsty in a desert.”

I concur with this message. 

Often in the coaching world there’s a disconnect around “selling” your gifts… selling your unique brand of transformation… selling the bliss your potential clients so desperately want. 

But I have to be real with you.

Coaching (one of the best methods for transformation on this planet) has to be sold.

It’s a fact you’ll need to embrace if coaching is going to create real livelihood for you. 

Maybe you don’t like the word “selling.”

It often puts you in the mindframe of cold calling, arm twisting, and trying to talk to people who don’t want to be sold. 

You get images in your head of you stumbling all over your words in conversations with potential clients, you worry over saying the right things, you fear they’ll judge you for the prices you want to charge, and the list goes on.

Selling my dear is the lifeblood of your business and there’s no two ways about it.

It’s time to embrace this subject that gets such a bad rap.

And it’s ok. I get it. Selling isn’t something we’re born knowing how to do.

And doing it can make you feel vulnerable and uncomfortable. I get it.

We are in physical bodies. So the humanness of us experiences discomfort. It is what it is.

But we can change this.

I’m on a mission to help as many transformational coaches as I can embrace a new way of “being” with selling.

You’re a coach because you want to change lives and for you to be held back by the discomfort of the “s” word is truly a disservice to those you’re meant to help.

You must embrace this: Selling is not something you do TO a person, it’s something you do FOR a personGet it, Got it, Good.

I want to give you a gift to help you begin to transform this for yourself and your business right now. 

Click here to get instant details and access to one of my most powerful transformational training’s:

Spiritual Selling Secrets: How to Get Your First or Next Paying Clients without Feeling Pushy, Sales-y or Annoying!

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And remember, the more money you make is an indicator that you’re helping more people change their lives for the BETTER!

I believe in the power of coaching, do you?

Then let’s change the world one transformational transaction (sale) at a time.

You may sell with my blessing, :-)



10 Common (Monkey Mind) Excuses Keeping You from Getting A Paid Client (Excuses 7-10)

Excuses-JeeJee-SaafirLast time we talked I went through some pretty important excuses that if not checked will most certainly keep you from getting a paid client.

Here they are for review:

#4 I don’t know enough, I’m not good enough (All the not enough excuses!)

#5 With so many coaches out there why would anyone hire me?

#6 Is this audience the right audience for who I am?

If you missed excuses 4-6 you can read the whole article by clicking here.

So here we are at the final four excuses that are keeping you from getting a paid client.

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Excuse #7: I don’t feel comfortable charging higher rates

I get it, it can be scary at first to charge higher rates.

You worry that you’ll miss out on business, or lose business, that you may get a lot of objections, that you’ll appear greedy, etc.

You’re also afraid of being judged, afraid that people will think you’re only about the money, and you have the same mental tape running about “who am I,” “and I’m not enough, so how can I justify these fees.”

Well you’re not evil or greedy and I’ll bet your work is worth more than you give it credit for.

But unless you understand the real value of what you do, you’ll stay stuck undercharging and over giving.

Click here to uncover “Why you’re not greedy for charging higher fees and 6 reasons that undercharging hurts your business.”

I can help you uncover the immense value you bring to clients and help you dissolve your fears of charging more.

Click here and let’s chat about how I can help.

Excuse #8: I hate sales.

Truth be told, the #1 reason coaches often hate selling ISN’T because they’re afraid of rejection.

To the contrary.

The #1 reason coaches hate selling is because they don’t want to be seen as pushy, slimy or sales-y.”

We’ve been conditioned to put our guard up whenever salespeople approach us.

We’ve come to believe that most salespeople are untrustworthy, manipulative and all about the almighty dollar.

While it’s true that those type of people do exist, it’s also true that you don’t have to be or feel like one of them.

But let’s be real for a second.

You’re not just a coach, you’re a business owner, and businesses make PROFIT right?

If you can’t sustain yourself you can’t help many people can you?

There’s a saying that goes, “It’s hard to shine your light, when you’re struggling to pay the light bill.”

See the truth is that this is about transformation, not trying to sell someone something.

Selling is not something you do TO a person it’s something you do FOR them!

The only reason you should actually care that someone buys from you or hires you is because you know it will help them.

If you don’t offer your services, no one gets the transformation their seeking.

Not your potential client and not you.

You want to do what you love and be profitable right? Right.

Selling is a skill you will want to feel confident about.

Need help upleveling your sales skills? Click here to chat about how I can help you.

Excuse #9 What if they ask for their money back?

In general when you provide private coaching services it’s a non-refundable agreement.

I’ve often offered a 30 day happiness guarantee if it’s a short term intensive program, or if it’s a VIP Day, they have til’ the next half of our session begins to let me know they aren’t satisfied and get their investment back. Never ever happened. Ever…

But with private coaching there generally is no refund. My time, energy and expertise is non-refundable so money is non-refundable.

You’ll want to make sure you state this clearly in your terms and conditions.

You should have a general coaching agreement that they sign before you begin your work together.

You’ll want to state clearly what happens if either of you wish to cancel the agreement early.

If they are seriously not happy working with you, they are under no obligation to continue and you’re under no obligation to refund their money.

Don’t sit around worrying about people asking for refunds.

Set your intention before every session with a client that they will find value in your work together and the perfect words will fall from your mouth, your heart and your mind.

All will be well.

Now onto the head honcho of all excuses and probably the most common monkey mind thought that will keep a paying client away like magic…

Drum roll please…

Excuse #10 “It’s Hard to Get Clients”

If thoughts become things, what thing to you think you’re creating with this thought?

No damn clients much?

If you’ve constantly got that tape playing in your mind that says “it’s hard to get clients,” or “moving someone from a free session into becoming a paid client is hard,” or “who’s gonna pay me for this in this economy,” guess what you’re gonna get?

Plenty of evidence that it IS hard and that no one will pay for your services in this economy.

Your mind is like a seeing eye dog, it is trained to look for whatever you’re focused on.

You’re totally asking yourself the wrong questions and thinking the wrong thoughts when it comes to your business.

All thoughts have a frequency and these kind go out and attract back to you in kind.

You can’t beat the Law of Attraction, it’s constant. It works 24/7 period.

Your business and all other aspects of your life are a perfect reflection of the internal stories you tell yourself on a daily basis, whether you realize you are telling them or not.

You’ll have to look at your fears here. The same one’s we looked at in excuse #4.

Thoughts like “it’s hard to get clients,” have self-judging thoughts attached to them.

Thoughts like “What if I fail?” “What if I don’t get enough clients?” “What if I’m rejected?” and the list goes on.

What do you think you’re going to attract with that negative internal chatter?

I’ll wait…

Now you don’t need to beat up on yourself about this.

Awareness is your greatest gift.

When we realize what we’re doing then we can start to reprogram, rewire, repattern, release and realign.

And you’re not alone. I can help you.

Click here to chat.

Now you can see why so many great coaches struggle to get clients.

It’s because of all the wonderful excuses that fill their head.

Which one’s will you let go of today?

Share with me in the comments below.

10 Common (Monkey Mind) Excuses Keeping You from Getting A Paid Client (Excuses 4-6)

Excuses-No-Paying-ClientsWelcome back! Last time we talked I walked you through 3 sneaky sabotaging excuses that are keeping you from getting a paid client.

They were:

#1 People can do this on their own…

#2 Can I really get them the results I promise?

#3 My audience doesn’t have any money…

If you missed Excuses 1-3 you can read the whole article by clicking here.

Let’s jump right back in and talk about 3 more really great excuses (and by really great, I mean you’re monkey mind is great at helping you use them) keeping you from getting a paying client.

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Excuse #4 I don’t know enough, I’m not good enough (All the “not enough” excuses!)

If you’ve been in the planning stages FOREVER, you might want to look at your unconscious motives.

If you’ve been stuck in the planning phase of your business for a while now, I think you know that at some point you’re going to have to take action to get things moving.

There’s only so much reading, researching, studying and planning you can do. 

Don’t be afraid when I talk about action.

Most of it will be inner action, but you know there’s some practical outer actions you have to take too.

Inspired action is what you’re reaching for.

You just can’t keep “being busy.”

Busy does not necessarily equal clients.

At some point you’ve just gotta get behind the wheel and learn to drive by… driving!

There’s something more important than thinking you need to learn one more thing and that’s… IMPLEMENTATION.

Granted you’ll still want to learn new things along the way, but you can’t keep waiting before you start.

So if you find yourself taking another class or reading another book or searching for the golden ring online, I would suggest that you look at your motives.

What are you afraid of?

Here’s a snippet of some deep questions from an exercise I UBER love by Hans Phillips.

I would suggest you ask yourself.

These aren’t pretty questions but it will make you more aware of what survival mechanisms you’re using that are holding you back.

Here they are…

  1. What are you afraid people are going to find out or decide about you? (e.g., “I’m weird, unlovable, unworthy, undeserving, lazy and stupid)


  1. If people found out that you were any or all of the above, what do you think would happen to you? (e.g., “I’d be abandoned, rejected, humiliated, thrown out.”)


  1. What do you do so that people don’t find out or decide that you are (fill in the blank with answers from question 1)______,________, _________, __________? These “doings” may include thinking, feeling or physical responses, for instance, “I get sick, I feel guilty that I’m not good enough, I think about ways to better myself.” This also includes things that are generally considered actions. I laugh a lot, I procrastinate, I look busy, I ride my bike and do other physical activity, I meditate.

 And here’s where you give those vulnerable answers:

  1. What I do so that people don’t find out or decide this about me is I… 

These are all the ways you cover up your fears. These are your survival mechanisms. It’s time to have the courage to embrace your fears.

It’s time to thrive not just survive.

The topic of “Fear” has become one of my favorite subjects and I’ve come with arms outstretched to help you through.

Click here to chat with me.

Excuse #5 With so many coaches out there why would anyone hire me?

I get it. It seems like everywhere you look everybody and their momma is a coach, especially if you scour the internet.

You’ll see that coaching peeps abound.

It’s true, coaching is a booming industry, but the question is why?

Do you think it’s simply for the money?

Well money is one important piece.

But where you find coaches you’ll often find people who are seeking freedom.

Who want to live life on their own terms.

You’ll truly find people who want to make a difference in the world.

You’ll find people with wonderful gifts who feel they’ve just got to share.

You’ll find a deep desire to help people transform their lives.

Granted you’ll find some jackholes in any industry but those people are few and far between and you need not concern yourself with them.

Do you know how many lawyers, doctors, teachers, and other professions exist on this planet.

I don’t hear anyone worrying that any of those industries are saturated?

Why? Because for some “odd” reason people feel we need them…

Well it looks like the world is saying yes to coaches too. We need you!

Statistically those other professions still exceed the number of coaches there currently are anyway.

So you need not worry, the coaching profession isn’t going anywhere.

When you’re a new coach however, I can understand your concern about this.

You look around and see all the top coaches partnering with each other, sharing each others work with the masses and you think “Why in the hell would anyone listen to me or open my emails when they’ve got all these superstars in their inbox everyday?

It can feel like they’ve got the coaching game sewed up, but I promise you they don’t.

You don’t have to wait til’ the superstars die off or wait til’ you think you’ve got all your shit together to help people.

If you need to get past that, I’ve written a great article to help you called “5 Ways You Help Clients Even When You Think “I’m Not Perfect Yet”.

Show me someone who’s got all their shit together every moment of every day and I’ll show you a person who’s not really livin!’

But besides all this we have to take into consideration how the world is changing.

People are more open and aware than ever and we have to give some credit to the coaching industry for ushering in this new age of self-awareness and consciousness.

People want to feel on purpose in their lives.

They are more aware than ever that they’ve been getting in their own way, and if they could just find someone to help them get past these fears and back into aligned action, oh how their life would change.

You my dear are unique. You’re not exactly like anyone else and you never need to pretend you are.

Not to make yourself more marketable, more likeable, more loveable, more worthy, more nothing.

It’s just a matter of you accepting and sharing your own personal story with your audience/tribe/peeps.

And besides if you have the desire within you to coach and facilitate transformation then the Universe has the path to bring to you everything you need to do that… and that means clients just for YOU!!!

Clients who are a match for you.

Which brings me to good ol’ Excuse #6… “Is this audience the right audience for who I am?

Just because there are an abundance of people who may need your help, that doesn’t mean they’re all YOUR ideal clients.

They most certainly ALL are NOT!

Imagine for a moment that your coaching practice was full of clients, but they were all the “wrong” clients.

And by wrong I mean, they were demanding, expected you to do all the work, super needy, no sense of humor, didn’t respect your time, didn’t do the work, etc.

You know the ones.

What if you’re coaching biz was full of headache, pain in the ass clients?

They’d drain your energy.

You’d end up resenting them.

You’d end up resenting your work.

You’d end up resenting yourself.

It would suck the life and passion out of you quickly.

You’re job… To get as clear as you can from where you currently are as to who you’d LOVE to work with.

You DO get to choose, you know.

You want people who are a match to who you are.

You want people who fuel your passion for what you do.

You want those who inspire you to do your best work.

You want those help you transform through helping them.

You want those who crack you the hell up. :-)

There are things to put in place so that you know before-hand whether someone might be a fit for you or not.

Need help figuring out who your Soul Clients are? Click here.

Wanna skip the do-it-yourself method and get yourself a coach ‘cause you get the priceless value of coaching for yourself?

Let me help you.

Click here to apply for a private 1-on-1 30 minute “Income Breakthrough Strategy Session!” at no cost to you and let’s put you on the path to no more excuses, just paying clients!







10 Common (Monkey Mind) Excuses Keeping You from Getting A Paid Client (Excuses 1-3)


So we know you’re brilliant, talented, and have life experience that makes you a unique asset to others.

You know you can coach others with what you know right now, but something is stopping you from making an offer.

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Even though you want this to work with every fiber of your being and you know you can help people you’re sabotaging yourself.

You come up with all sorts of excuses to justify your behavior and getting your first or next client is starting to seem like a pipe dream.

Well, if this sounds like you keep reading because in this series I’m going to help you solve this problem for good.

Excuse #1

People can do this on their own

You’ve no doubt heard the old saying, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” right?

When your growing your coaching business there’s a common Monkey Mind thought that goes “Why would people hire me when they could just get this information for free?”

While it’s true that someone could just hop on “Google” or “YouTube” to learn about virtually anything they want (and trust me I certainly have) in most instances it’s just not enough.

A good coach like you does more than just provide information.

You’re more than just an accountability buddy and a motivator.

You help people break the self-sabotage cycle (you know the cycle you’re quite familiar with yourself).

You help people overcome limiting beliefs that break though the barriers that are holding them back.

You help people get back on track when they hit a wall and feel like giving up.

You’re aware of the value of coaching, but if you can’t “see” that value for yourself you’ll keep worrying that others won’t see it and won’t hire you either.

People are busier than ever these days and though they can pop right over to Google or YouTube, if they had someone (and by someone I mean you!) offering them a way to help them get results quicker and easier than they’ve been able to alone, they would totally allocate the resources to get started.

This segues right into excuse #2.

Excuse #2

Can I really get them the results I promise?

A lot of coaches fear this one, especially newbies. You worry about speaking to results for fear that you may not actually be able to help clients get any results.

The question to ask yourself is “Why am I taking on the responsibility of doing the WORK for my clients?

Yes, why are you?

Noone can really “promise” results.

It’s your job to facilitate transformation. Got it. FACILITATE…

It’s their job to show up and GET the transformation by actually DOING the work.

Now if this is a case where you’re just not confident with yourself as a coach, get the training you need or hire a coach yourself to show you how to do what you do better.

Need help uncovering the transformation you provide? I got you.

Click here to get private 1-on-1 help.

Excuse #3

My audience doesn’t have any money

You’re telling me that as an actual fact?

Really… you know that to be the absolute truth?

And… you’re sure about this?

Granted some will be more apt to hire you than others but we don’t want to assume the primary reason is “money.” There’s a question I’d ask you to consider beyond whether these people can afford you and that is “Is this audience the right fit for who I am?” Well talk about that next time.

Now, if you’ve followed me or listened to me for any length of time you’ll know that I stand behind the knowing that you ALWAYS get what you TRULY expect.

Assuming that someone can’t afford you is the fastest way to ensure you never have “Paying” clients.

Clients can’t beat a path to your door if you’re blocking them subconsciously.

When you’re assuming what someone can and cannot do you’re projecting your own money stuff.

That’s about you, not them.

See, when someone wants a solution to a challenge bad enough, you’ll be amazed at how they come up with the money for what they want.

If you’ve seen the kind of people in your audience being served by other coaches successfully you’d better believe that “they” can afford it.

Now if they don’t see the value in working with you that’s a problem I can help with. It’s a problem I love helping with.

Here’s what you’ll need:

  • To really know the value of what you do for someone and it’s far reaching effects
  • How to confidently have transformational conversations that uses the client’s own inner guidance to help them see that you’re the solution to their problem
  • What to do to end that conversation with a paying client

Let me help you.

Click here to apply for a private 1-on-1 30 minute “Income Breakthrough Strategy Session” at no cost to you and let’s put you on the path to paying clients!

The Matrix, Mistakes & Laurence Fishburne…


I had a powerful session with my coach recently.

My coach specializes in Matrix Reimprinting.

I won’t go into the logistics of what that means here, but basically it helps me clean up my mental trash, clear up my energy, and let go of the old worn out B.S. (Belief Systems) gettin’ in my way.

Very “Matrix-ish.” Total red pill action.

Speaking of the Matrix. Coincidentally, I totally dreamt about Laurence Fishburne last night.

And it wasn’t just some dream it was an intimate dream.

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Of all people I’m in an intimate relationship with Laurence Fishburne. LOL

Not exactly a celebrity I’d imagine myself dreaming about but there he was loving the heck outta me.



What my subconscious is trying to tell me about myself I do not know for certain at this moment. Should I be loving the matrix and seeing how far down the rabbit hole it goes? (No I don’t mean the movie, I mean my life)… hmmm… probably

It wasn’t a bad dream so I’ll take it as a good sign. 

Anyway, I’ve had some feelings as of late that haven’t settled with me and I just couldn’t figure out why I was feeling this way.

So my coach dove in and told me to just spout off every negative thought I could think of regarding anything I’ve been thinking about lately.

It was very therapeutic, but what we unearthed was far more important.

What came up was that part of me STILL felt like life was a struggle.

As smart as I am and with all that I know and all that I teach life still feels like a struggle more often than I’d like to admit.

I was asked to find the first memory from my childhood where I felt this way. 

I easily went right to a very vivid memory of me in elementary school standing in Ms. Bryant’s class misspelling a word during a spelling bee.

I was standing there beside my desk crying and hyperventilating because I had misspelled a word as my classmates looked on.

They probably didn’t give a hot shit that I’d misspelled that word. But I cared, because I was a winner.

I was standing there thinking about how embarrassed I was.JeeJee-Saafir-mistakes


I mean it wasn’t “natural” for me to get things wrong. I was a smart child. How could I get this silly word wrong?

Who was I letting down… My teacher, my mom, my dad? Were the other kids thinking I wasn’t smart enough?

We unearthed simply and easily that I felt bad about making mistakes.

That somehow making a mistake as simple as spelling a word wrong meant that I wasn’t good enough or that I was a bad girl.

This has apparently colored how I’ve showed up in my life. I’ve often been afraid of making mistakes and thus held myself back.

I was raised to believe that I had to be smart to get ahead in the world.

Making mistakes seemed painful if I thought I wouldn’t be accepted or seen as good enough.

My coach and I did some deep work on this memory. It wasn’t the only “bad” memory there but it was one of the big one’s.

I was finally able to start healing this memory as I had a beautiful interaction (while tapping to release) with the little me who felt so bad that day.

The little me who felt like a failure that day…

The little me who wasn’t living up to her parents expectations that day (or  at least what she thought were her parents expectations)…

The little me who felt she might be seen as dumb…

It was powerful to start letting that go.

I’ll admit I cried a bit but that release felt like heaven.

We replaced that memory with a new loving bright memory where “little me” was completely ok making mistakes.

She realized  that those mistakes made her smarter and wiser and better.

She realized that everyone makes them and so it was ok if she did too. 

In this new memory she and I decided to go play instead of worrying about having made that mistake.

Apparently big me still adores fun and play just as much as I did when I was little and it was a big part of changing this memory.

We went to the park, played on the merry-go-round, ate ice cream cones, enjoyed nature and talked about cute boys.

Little me was happy about this new found way of seeing mistakes.  

We both knew for the first time that it REALLY IS OK not to “get it right.” 

What did I learn… that there really is no such thing as mistakes.

There really is no such thing as failure.

There is no win or lose, there’s just WIN OR LEARN.

What we deem to be mistakes are simply opportunities to grow.

I heard a quote that said “Mistakes are a gift you give yourself to find out more of who you really are.

I know today unequivocally that this is the truth… It is all for the expansion, transformation and evolution of who I really am.

Hell if I’d never made any mistakes I wouldn’t be doing this coaching thing.

Because I’ve had plenty of opportunity to learn and grow I’ve got some real shit to share.

Every successful person on this planet has made plenty of “mistakes” and still do, read about them and you’ll see it’s true in almost every case.

So… where are you afraid to fail, and is it truth or is it just opportunity in disguise?


Talking consciousness, entrepreneurship, money and fun with Certified Access Consciousness Facilitator Cory Michelle

I haven’t done an interview in a while and oh boy did I realize just how much I miss and totally love it!!Cory-and-JeeJee-Interview

This time my guest was the lovely Cory Michelle of CoryMichelle.us

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Cory is a Juicy Life Activator, Speaker, Author, Facilitator and Visionary woman on a mission! She teaches online programs, as well as live classes about how to access and have more of YOU in your life and business.

Cory is also a Certified Access Consciousness Facilitator and you’ll here all about that in our recorded chat.

She’s been a featured author in several books: Adventures in Manifesting: Conscious Business http://tinyurl.com/qa4klhc; The Energy of Receiving http://tinyurl.com/oys75hs; and ReVeolution: The Return of the Divine Feminine http://tinyurl.com/pxb4h6f

She’s also got a great gift for you. Her Juicy Business Juicy Life Blueprint. Believe me you’re gonna wanna get this one. I have it and I love it. If you’re a coach or entrepreneur you’ll really love the powerful questions you’ll find. Just click here to pop right over to her website and pick it up now. Click here to get it now.

Now onto the juice we talked about in our interview together.

In this 37 minute interview you’ll hear:

-The plain and simple answer to “What is Consciousness?

-Who is Cory Michelle and what is Access Consciousness?

-One of the biggest polluters on the planet. Hint: it’s not any of the ones you’ll hear about on the news

-What the heck is “running bars?

-How you resist money and create limitations to receiving more

-A slew of powerful questions to ask to intuitively create more money, fun and a business

-What to do about beating up on yourself or making yourself wrong around things like “Procrastination”

-Two powerful questions Cory asks everyday

And so much more!

Get access to the interview here! You don’t want to miss it, seriously!





The Crash and Burn Method… or My Very First Sales Conversation as a Coach

Spiritual-Selling-SecretsI remember vividly my very first enrollment conversation as a coach.

I’d created a 30 min session to offer, gave it a great name and made a quick post in a Facebook group I’d belonged to. Immediately someone got back to me to take me up on it.

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I felt confident. Our conversation flowed well. I found out what her challenges were and what she DIDNT want, and then I found out what her ideal life would look like and what she DID want. Granted I had to coax some of it out of her because she really wasn’t sure.

Soon we were closing in on my offer…

I began to panic. Asking her to work with me or even sharing my solution with her was not coming easy.

So what did I do… I coached.

Big mistake.

I coached her to overcome my discomfort of asking for money. I coached her to justify her spending her time with me.
I coached her to try to prove to her I was worthy.

I coached her because I was scared.

What would she think of me? What if she rejects me? Will she think I’m just in it for the money?

She was riding on high when we came to the conclusion of our conversation.

I’d opened up new ideas and solutions for her and now she didn’t need me it seemed.

I felt my emotions crash and burn as I asked her if she’d like to work with me, as she replied “No I think I’m ok for now, I’ve got a lot to think about, thanks for your coaching…”


All kinds of thoughts were running through my mind.

I wasn’t good enough. I didn’t know enough. I didn’t know what I was doing. Who the heck was I anyway?

It hurt. I pitied myself.

The next day, I pulled my face up outta the dirt and decided I would learn how to have transformational conversations that lead to transactional transformation.

It took some inner work and some outer work, but I succeeded.

The inner work (especially) led to me having conversations where my potential clients were already ready to work with me and they knew it before we’d ever gotten on the phone.

I had them at hello.

Would you love to wield this kind of transformational power?

You know the number #1 challenge coaches have around having a selling conversation isn’t that they’ll be rejected, it’s that they’ll be seen as pushy, sales-y or annoying.

I felt that way at one time too.

So I’m here to help you change the game of whats possible for you in your business when you release the limiting beliefs around selling and money that are holding you back and ease through your discomfort of making a valuable offer.

Join me tomorrow, Tuesday, March 31st at 7pm Eastern, as I reveal my Spiritual Selling Secrets – How to Get Your First or Next Paying Client without Feeling Pushy, Sales-y, or Annoying!

Register here: jeejeesaafir.com/spiritual-selling-secrets/