Talking consciousness, entrepreneurship, money and fun with Certified Access Consciousness Facilitator Cory Michelle

I haven’t done an interview in a while and oh boy did I realize just how much I miss and totally love it!!Cory-and-JeeJee-Interview

This time my guest was the lovely Cory Michelle of CoryMichelle.us

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Cory is a Juicy Life Activator, Speaker, Author, Facilitator and Visionary woman on a mission! She teaches online programs, as well as live classes about how to access and have more of YOU in your life and business.

Cory is also a Certified Access Consciousness Facilitator and you’ll here all about that in our recorded chat.

She’s been a featured author in several books: Adventures in Manifesting: Conscious Business http://tinyurl.com/qa4klhc; The Energy of Receiving http://tinyurl.com/oys75hs; and ReVeolution: The Return of the Divine Feminine http://tinyurl.com/pxb4h6f

She’s also got a great gift for you. Her Juicy Business Juicy Life Blueprint. Believe me you’re gonna wanna get this one. I have it and I love it. If you’re a coach or entrepreneur you’ll really love the powerful questions you’ll find. Just click here to pop right over to her website and pick it up now. Click here to get it now.

Now onto the juice we talked about in our interview together.

In this 37 minute interview you’ll hear:

-The plain and simple answer to “What is Consciousness?

-Who is Cory Michelle and what is Access Consciousness?

-One of the biggest polluters on the planet. Hint: it’s not any of the ones you’ll hear about on the news

-What the heck is “running bars?

-How you resist money and create limitations to receiving more

-A slew of powerful questions to ask to intuitively create more money, fun and a business

-What to do about beating up on yourself or making yourself wrong around things like “Procrastination”

-Two powerful questions Cory asks everyday

And so much more!

Get access to the interview here! You don’t want to miss it, seriously!

 

 

 

 

The Crash and Burn Method… or My Very First Sales Conversation as a Coach

Spiritual-Selling-SecretsI remember vividly my very first enrollment conversation as a coach.

I’d created a 30 min session to offer, gave it a great name and made a quick post in a Facebook group I’d belonged to. Immediately someone got back to me to take me up on it.

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I felt confident. Our conversation flowed well. I found out what her challenges were and what she DIDNT want, and then I found out what her ideal life would look like and what she DID want. Granted I had to coax some of it out of her because she really wasn’t sure.

Soon we were closing in on my offer…

I began to panic. Asking her to work with me or even sharing my solution with her was not coming easy.

So what did I do… I coached.

Big mistake.

I coached her to overcome my discomfort of asking for money. I coached her to justify her spending her time with me.
I coached her to try to prove to her I was worthy.

I coached her because I was scared.

What would she think of me? What if she rejects me? Will she think I’m just in it for the money?

She was riding on high when we came to the conclusion of our conversation.

I’d opened up new ideas and solutions for her and now she didn’t need me it seemed.

I felt my emotions crash and burn as I asked her if she’d like to work with me, as she replied “No I think I’m ok for now, I’ve got a lot to think about, thanks for your coaching…”

Damn…

All kinds of thoughts were running through my mind.

I wasn’t good enough. I didn’t know enough. I didn’t know what I was doing. Who the heck was I anyway?

It hurt. I pitied myself.

The next day, I pulled my face up outta the dirt and decided I would learn how to have transformational conversations that lead to transactional transformation.

It took some inner work and some outer work, but I succeeded.

The inner work (especially) led to me having conversations where my potential clients were already ready to work with me and they knew it before we’d ever gotten on the phone.

I had them at hello.

Would you love to wield this kind of transformational power?

You know the number #1 challenge coaches have around having a selling conversation isn’t that they’ll be rejected, it’s that they’ll be seen as pushy, sales-y or annoying.

I felt that way at one time too.

So I’m here to help you change the game of whats possible for you in your business when you release the limiting beliefs around selling and money that are holding you back and ease through your discomfort of making a valuable offer.

Join me tomorrow, Tuesday, March 31st at 7pm Eastern, as I reveal my Spiritual Selling Secrets – How to Get Your First or Next Paying Client without Feeling Pushy, Sales-y, or Annoying!

Register here: jeejeesaafir.com/spiritual-selling-secrets/

 

Spiritual Selling Tips In Your Inbox and Your Chance To Win

Spiritual-Selling-SecretsIn lieu of my upcoming free training “Spiritual Selling Secrets – How to Get your First or Next Paying Clients without Feeling Pushy, Sales-y or Annoying!” I wanted to give my loyal subscribers some great tips each day leading up to this special call.

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I thought why not share this juicy info with the peeps who’ve popped onto my website. They might want the goods too!

It is also my intention to make this free training call the best, most valuable version of this talk I’ve done thus far.

It’s always been one of my most well received training’s and well… I want it to be better than ever.

So here’s what I want to do for you.

Click here to answer these questions.

#1. What’s the biggest problem you’re having with selling your services/enrolling new clients?

#2. What’s the #1 question you’d like me to answer for you on this topic?

Fill in the contact box at the bottom of the page when you click here. Enter your name and pop your answers into the message area and hit send.

If I choose your question I will answer it live on the call and you’ll win a free 30 minute “Biz Brainstorming Session” with yours truly, to hash out what’s getting in your way and we’ll get you going with at least one solid tip of action (inner or outer) to take to get your biz growin!

You must be registered and on the call live to win!

Grab your seat now. <<<

Now on to the tip of the day.

Spiritual Selling Tip of The Day:

Never go into a conversation with a potential client with the thought of trying to “close a sale.”

Instead your intention is to help people “open up into what is possible in their life.”

You are not closing the sale, you are giving them a CHOICE.

And the best selling (enrollment) conversations occur when the potential client talks themselves into working with you.

How do you do that, you ask? 

You’ll need to become a part of my tribe to get the answer. I’ll be sending it out tomorrow to all my loyal subscribers.

Register for the call and you’ll get all my tips leading up to this call.  

Now don’t forget to click here and send me your answers!!!! 

Remember you need to be on the call to win! Register NOW!<<<

The #1 Reason Coaches Hate Selling

Spiritual-Selling-SecretsThe #1 reason so many coaches hate selling (or hate the thought of having to sell) isn’t because they are afraid of rejection. 

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To the contrary.

No. The #1 reason so many coaches hate selling is because they don’t want to be seen as pushy or sale-sy.

We’ve been conditioned to put our guard up when salespeople approach us.

We’ve been taught to be wary cause salespeople are always trying to sell us something, right?

We’ve been taught to believe that most salespeople are manipulative, sleazy, dollar chasin’ creeps who don’t really care about us.

It’s true that there are those kinds of people out there in every industry on the planet.

I’ve worked with them.

Because of my spiritual nature I knew that inside them was a loving person but what fell out of their mouths often made my spirit cringe.

One previous coworker said to me one day, thinking it was a great teaching moment as he had just finished up with a potential customer, “In my mind I’m thinking, if you ain’t spending money with me get the f@ck up out my chair.  NEXT...

I was shocked that he said that to me. Didn’t he know I wasn’t like that. Guess not…

He actually thought that he could train me to be that way.

As I almost threw up in my mouth, holding back my thoughts from showing up in my facial expression as the first thought flittered in my mind “You dirty, sleazy muthaf@cka!”

I just nodded as if I understood what he meant.

As I walked back to my desk I was utterly grateful to know that I didn’t have to be like him or worry that there were others like him.

I knew that if there is one like me who knows that a selling conversation is truly a transformational conversation then there are and will be more like me.

That is why I’m so passionate about this topic.

I’ve had my share of clients in other industries I’ve worked in say to me that so-and-so is so sleazy and they only care about making a dollar off me.

But I so was blessed when they said “but I know you’re not like them, you’re one of the few.”

Ever heard the saying that “all men are dogs?” Is it really true. REALLY?

Of course it’s not. But if you believe it, you’ll come across plenty of them in your life. PROMISE.

So is it really true that “all salespeople are sleazy, manipulate and conniving?”

Of course not, but if you believe it, you’ll come across plenty of them. PROMISE.

So this is for those of you who are afraid that this stigma is how you’ll be seen.

Coaches (especially my spiritual bad-asses) like to kick selling under the rug because they don’t want to be seen like this.

But let’s get real for a second.

You’re not just a coach… you’re a business owner and business owners make PROFIT right?

If you can’t sustain yourself you can’t help many people can you?

Nobody gets the transformation they’re seeking. Not you and not them.

That’s why I want to share something special with you.

I want you to give yourself the gift of freedom from the fear of selling yourSELF.

Cause let’s face it, that’s what you’re doing. You’re not selling coaching.

You’re selling yourSELF. You’re the solution to somebody’s problem. To somebody’s prayer. Don’t hold that lightly.

You’re the light in the dark. 

This isn’t about selling your soul for profit.

This is about “giving” (with a generous heart) the world the gifts that come from within you. Gifts of your Spirit. Gifts of your Soul.

And to be paid beautifully and WITHOUT guilt for those gifts.

Let’s start a movement. You and me.

We’re here to change lives.

Let’s show the world selling is NOT something you do TO a person, it’s something that you do FOR a person.

Join me on Tuesday March 31st @7pm EST for my FREE training. Spiritual Selling Secrets – How to Get your First or Next Paying Clients without Feeling Pushy, Salesy or Annoying! Get all the details by clicking here. <<<<

 

 

 

Why you should just DO YOU. 5 Ways to Be Yourself in Business

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[Repost from 1/29/14]

I love working with coaches. They have such a passion for what they do and really care about making a difference, but alas they struggle with BEing themselves. “Just Do You” is usually easier said than done.

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I struggled with this for many years in my business endeavors, with the exception of when I was an adult party planner selling sex toys and offering up some good sexucation. I was me on high. I often wanted to be one of the people in my audiences so that I could enjoy the hilariousness of me. I was fun, I was knowledgeable and I was ME.

People who were too embarrassed to talk about sex all of a sudden came out of their shell, people who were quiet and shy became lively and interactive, and no one felt they had a dumb sex question, they asked away feeling free from judgment by me. This is what being yourself allows others to do. 

When I got into helping entrepreneurs build their businesses, specifically spiritually-minded entrepreneurs I actually hid what I was doing from friends and family. I hid my spiritual side because I was afraid of being judged about being “woo-woo or weird.” I censored my posts when I would write for my blog. I didn’t sprinkle any curse words into my writing for amusement. I kept taking down Facebook page after Facebook page because I didn’t want to leave a trail for family and friends who had asked to “friend me” so they wouldn’t find out I was leading a double life so to speak.

I know you get me. We’re scared to be real in our lives and businesses because it makes us vulnerable. We think we won’t be taken seriously if we’re ourselves. We think we won’t be accepted, or we’ll be judged. We want to be liked and loved and too often we just say “F*ck it” and retreat back into what feels normal. But as we feel emptier and emptier the more we look outside of ourselves for love and approval we hit that painful place where hiding who we are just doesn’t feel good anymore. And to that I say “F*ck that!”

Not being yourself not only hurts you but it hurts your business.  It’s scary admittedly, but I promise you it’s worth it.

Just this past week I was immersed in a seminar with a small group of intellectual/spiritual people. I know when many think “spiritual,” all these cliche thoughts of what spiritual people are like come to mind, but these people were anything but stereotypical. They were frickin’ hilarious. They were real. Even with our differences we had so much in common. We had some of the most enlightening conversations, some of the weirdest and some of the raunchiest. We were silly, playful and deep all within the breath of a weeks time.

There was even an Asian guy there who had purchased his children some Chinese bedtime stories and had received them while he was away, who asked a few of his new lady friends (me included) if we’d like him to read us a Chinese bedtime story down in the lobby before we went to bed. We were all over it. It was different but such a sweet gesture and we all ate it up. Thank goodness that book had pictures though! And kudos to him because this was a guy being himself and we loved it. I’ll never forget that moment.

I think our spiritual sides just make us more of who we really are and for me that’s: fun, funny, creative, confident, sensual, frisky, playful, smart, intuitive, prosperous, etc…

Everyone won’t love you or like you but that’s perfectly fine, because the right ones will show up that love you and want to work with you. And the best way to start attracting more IDEAL clients that love you is for you to just BE YOU! Let your personality come through in your marketing, whether you’re speaking, emailing or writing, be yourself.

Here are 5 quick tips to help you just DO YOU:

#1 Who are you?

Are you an extrovert or introvert? Are you funny, quirky and lighthearted? or Perhaps more serious and deep? Whatever you are, own it. Stop trying to be or do what everyone else is doing, DO YOU. Granted you can learn from what other successful people in your industry are doing but then you’ve got to add YOUR own style to it. When I learn new dance moves, I take the basics I’m taught and once I’m comfortable with the moves I put my own JeeJee flavor on it and anyone who watches me dance knows exactly what JeeJee flavor looks like. It’s unmistakable.

#2 Stop trying to market like everyone else.

The best biz “Guru” on the planet could show you his system and how it’s worked for these “x” people but that doesn’t mean it’s right for you. You need to ask yourself these important questions before you go around replicating what others are doing or buying that next program or hiring that coach.

  • Does this person feel good to me. Do they seem similar in personality, talents and traits?
  • Like me, do they seem to value similar things?
  • When I look at the outcomes I want to achieve do I still feel connected and believe in this person past my own cynicism?

#3. Stop “needing” other people to tell you what to do.

I get it, we often get caught up in “Oh, if I could just get somebody to tell me what to do, then I’d be successful.” Sure we all need someone to guide us from time to time especially in matters of business, but the truth is no one could ever know what is truly best for you than you. Get support, but at the end of the day always make sure to check in with your #1 mentor, your inner guidance. And if you do get a mentor make sure they’re a person who would remind you to check in with your inner guidance. 

#4 Stop having the “This is the thing that’s going to change my life” mindset.

Often people get so excited about the new program they’re taking or new product they’re buying or the new coach they’re hiring thinking “this is going to be it, this is going to be the thing that changes my life and business and makes me buttloads of money.” Often you end up disappointed when you don’t get the exact results you were looking for. See, there is no “This is it, magic pill.” Sure, you can have some success, but we’re ever-changing beings and there is really nothing that is going to change your whole life forever more. There will be always be another thing, another person, another venture and another idea.

In truth YOU are the thing that continually changes your life and you do it moment by moment. All the other people and stuff you think are changing your life are just actors, props and materials you created to make this game of life more fun, challenging or easy, and more real for you.

The 4x-time Grammy Award winning songstress India Arie says “If you create the game, then you create the rules. And if you’ll just be you, there’s no way you can lose.” Truer words were never spoken. You are creating the game that is your life and all the rules though sometimes you pretend you are not.

#5 Stop giving a Shiznit about what others will think.

Sitting around trying to please everybody or trying to say the right things all the time will keep you stuck in your life and business. Learn it now… Happiness is a damn INSIDE JOB! (Written in big letters to also remind myself!) When you understand this you’ll realize that happiness is your own responsibility.

You can let go of needing to be liked, loved, or right. You can also let go of needing to prove yourself and live up to everyone’s expectations. Granted, being liked, praised and appreciated is nice but if you always look for it outside of yourself you will end up sadly disappointed. No one can stand on their heads in enough ways to please you all the time and neither can you. Love and acceptance is not OUT THERE, it is WITHIN. And when you love, like, accept and approve of yourself just the way you are, it won’t matter what anyone else thinks because the right people will show up in your life and the others will go the other way.

Your Call to Action! Tell me, what’s holding you back from being yourself, what are you afraid of? Take some time today to consider what’s awesome about you and why it’s great to be you. Then consider one action step you can take this week to let that shine through in your marketing. How will you DO YOU?

Feelin’ like a fraud? Here’s why you can stop today…

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Have you heard people telling you that you can only coach people to do things that you have done?

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For example:

If you’re going to be a relationship coach you have to have a great relationship.

If you’re going to be a business coach you have to have already succeeded in your own business.

If you’re going to help people lose weight you have to be slim and trim.

I know, I know… it makes logical sense, but it’s a lie.

I personally know of an overweight guy who sales personal training at a well-known gym.

Even I was shocked when I saw him.

I thought “wow, this gym hires anybody!”

But it turned out that he was actually selling personal training to people because he was showing them that he was on his own path to losing weight using the program(s) they sold.

He was using the training himself, and selling it! 

Anyone who sees him knows that he isn’t at his ideal weight at this moment (not even close), his body doesn’t look like the photos of the lean fit people plastered all over the wall of the gym, but he is able to show people the value of what good diet and exercise habits can net you because he is “doing” it and losing weight.

I can’t imagine what he’s had to endure with people (probably his own coworkers and members of the gym) looking at him like “how the hell is he going to sell personal training when he’s fat?”

I can’t lie, I totally thought that to myself when I saw him.

But he’s probably going to be one of the most confident people on this planet when it’s all said and done.

And what a life changing testimonial he’s going to have for the people he helps in the future.

And as for the ones who doubted him along the way… well telling them to “kiss his fat ass” probably won’t be appropriate anymore. :-)

He believes in himself. And someone believed in him enough to give him a try. He’s a powerful teacher if you ask me.

You too deserve to feel your greatness and enjoy powerful coaching confidence so that all your clients and potential future clients get value from your coaching.

Own your greatness, and realize that you’re ALREADY ENOUGH to support someone else on their journey.

Can you coach someone to achieve success you’ve never had? Of course you can! I have!

While I was behind on my bills, I was coaching people to make money in their businesses, and guess what! They did!

I even coached some of those same people to turn personal relationships in their lives around, to manifest resources, people and ideas that made a huge difference in their lives.

Will it make it easier for you to get clients if you’ve done it yourself? Yes, it’ll probably be a bit easier.

It’s certainly easier to pop wheelie’s when you’ve have some experience riding a bike.

But don’t let your lack of wheelie success in your business stop you from putting yourself out there and marketing yourself.

Of course you’ll continue to hone your craft as you go and get bigger and better along the way, but if you sit on the sidelines watching everybody else pop wheelie’s you’ll wait forever.

And no one transforms while you wait. Not you and not the people you’re meant to help.

Do you think the coaches who have the level of success you want just blinked their eyes one day and were successful? Hell no.

It happened because they continued to move forward.

If you think they never felt the fraud feeling you’re kidding yourself.

They’ve been there too.

And when they reach into new places in their business you can bet they probably still have an inkling of that feeling there too.

They’ve fallen off their bikes trying to pop bigger wheelie’s too.

But they pick themselves up, put their feet back on those pedals and keep pushin’.

Never discount the experience and expertise you’ve gained up to this point.

Right now there are millions of people all over this planet who would hire a coach right on the spot if there was one reaching out to them and marketing to them well.

There are people all over this planet who are having problems that they can’t solve on their own (or can’t solve fast enough).

Right now there are people all over this planet who have big dreams and goals who just aren’t able to get there on their own (or can’t get their fast enough).

These are the people who need you to be a great coach and a great marketer.

Stop trying to measure up and realize you are ENOUGH now.

Just think of the clients you’ll have in the future who’ll be telling someone else… “I’m so glad (insert your name) did her thing in her business because she made such a huge frickin’ difference in my life.

Put your feet on those pedals and push. People are waiting to be coached by YOU!

And if you need help getting the momentum going to really pop that bad-ass wheelie in your business I’m here.

In fact if you act quickly you can get one of the few spaces I hold each month for a 20 minute complimentary “Get More Clients” Breakthrough Session.

Simply click here to send an email to info@jeejeesaafir.com with the answers to these questions:

Tell me about your business? What do you do, who are your ideal clients?

Where are you at in your business now and where do you want to be over the next 3, 6 and 12 months?

When it comes to offering your services, what are your pain-in-the-booty problems?

Tell me why now? What’s got you seeking support and why are you choosing lil’ ol’ me?

Send that email NOW to info@jeejeesaafir.com!! Wheelie poppin’ awaits!

 

Brain Fart… Writers Block, What’s the Sitch?

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Ever had writers block?

Ever toiled over what the hell to write about? Felt like you’d already said it all or are starting to sound like everybody else?

Ever been torn between wanting to write about a certain topic from your heart and in the next moment worried about whether anyone would give a hot sh%t about it?

Couldn’t decide so you stayed stuck?

Don’t feel ashamed for slacking on your writing. Let’s talk about it.

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I’ll go first. As you may have noticed I haven’t written a damn thing for over a month. No newsletters to my subscribers and no blog posts. Yes I’ve sent emails here and there but nothing substantial.

I’ve been consistently writing for a few years now & then Phbbbbbtttttt… (brain fart!) WTF!

Granted, I’ve had a lot of irons in the fire lately so it’s felt like a bit of a chore to get back on track.

When I thought about writing and I actually sat down to do it (on more than a few occasions as of late) my mind went to “what the hell do I write about?

All the best (worst) procrastinating excuses have been swimming around in my head, “I’m too tired,” “I’m too busy,” I’m overwhelmed, “I’m not inspired,” “what if no one even reads it,” “what if people unsubscribe from my list” “I need to see what others are writing about first…”  

I have been off my game.

As Kim Possible woulda’ said back in the dayWhat’s the Sitch?”

There’s one main issue here and its name is, drum roll please…  FEAR

Let me be even more transparent about why I’ve been overwhelmed and tired and how that FEAR is was on the forefront of my world…

I’m in the final year of completing my Master’s degree in Transpersonal Psychology and specializing in transformational coaching to deepen my coaching expertise.

If you don’t know what Transpersonal means, here’s a brief definition. “Transpersonal psychology focuses mainly on mind, expanded states of consciousness and human potential. Research into transpersonal states of consciousness provides new psychological theories on perception, self-identity and ways of knowing.”

If you ask me, it’s simply the practice of learning/remembering how to BE who you really are, in all your fantastic glory, authentically and unapologetically.

I am not at this school just to receive some letters behind my name, though that’s cool and all. I’m here to be immersed in this practice of being ME and this institution helps me to do that. Though there are many other avenues I could’ve taken to do this, I’ve found a community here of people that I utterly adore and would actually call “Soul-Mates.” And that my friends is “priceless.”

I’ve also been through a few shake ups over the last few months… relationship breakdowns, computers dying, flash drives blanking, car accidents, etc. Needless to say some extra money was needed for a bit of time and so I took on a job for a short time.

But now that I’ve come through the breakdown and am finally breaking through again I can’t stay away from YOU or my passion. I’ve got to write and share ME with those who are asking.

So now that I’m done with the back and forth over whether I should give you what you want, or give myself what I want in this post, I’ve killed two birds with one stone, and it feels mighty good.

It’s a keep it real moment and I love it. I know I’m not the only one who struggles from time to time with trying to put out great, authentic content people want to read.

So let’s briefly get back to “the Sitch…” FEAR

Turns out that my chosen spiritual discipline this year as I complete my Masters is that of “Embracing my Fears and letting them go!”

The fear of not knowing what to write all stemmed from those unhelpful thoughts that said “What if they don’t like it,” “What if they laugh at me,” “What if they judge me,” “what if I fail,” “What if I can’t be any more successful in this business as I’ve been,” and hell, “what if I really succeed wildly, then what, I’ll have to be more un-comfortable?” I can embrace it all and let it all go… 

Thank you God I chose this school to do my “dirty” work. The dirty work of being my damn self. The self that knows that she is “Good” and doesn’t have to pretend for anyone. The self that knows she is supported, valuable and worthy. The self that does not have to cling to worry about “getting it wrong.” She can “get it wrong” and still move forward! The self that is not afraid to feel all of her real emotions (fear included), and knows that when she allows herself to feel them that then she can transform them and change her life immediately.

FEAR is now my friend. So what does that mean for you?

It means that in this moment I am publicly acknowledging that I will be bolder, bigger, and more ballsy than I’ve ever been before and you will benefit because you’ll be getting the best of me.

You’ll be seeing me, hearing me, and getting the best expertise I can give you to help you embrace your fears, make more money, grow your business and share the best of you with those who are here to learn/play/co-create with you.

I’ll be listening to you and myself more deeply. You’ll be getting the most authentic me I can possibly give you at any moment.

Know that everything I do is meant with the intention of love. With the intention to uplift. With the intention to leave you better and never worse than you were before you met me. With the intention that because you see me DO ME, that you have the absolute and utter freedom to give yourself the green light to DO YOU!!

(Looks like writer’s block ended and writer’s diarrhea took over! But I won’t apologize for the length of this post. Just excuse me while I wipe…)

In touch soon… xoxo

New Horizons Await,

JeeJee

The problem with doing it on your own is…

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I recently started getting personal training.

I work with a fitness coach/trainer about 3 times a week. 

Now why would I get a trainer when I’ve been working out regularly on my own for over 20 years and I’m in pretty decent physical shape?

Well here’s the skinny of it…

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I’m turning 40 next year and apparently I’ve succumb to the age old story of metabolism slowing to a crawl, and it seems as if my “problem spots” could use a little more help than I can give them on my own. They seem extra stubborn these days (or is it me…)

I’ve been in a very comfortable state of just maintaining, making sure the muffin top doesn’t get out of control, staying flexible and making sure I am just strong and toned enough to get by.

But, when I thought about how my body & life could improve even more after having someone show me what to do on a regular basis (so I can stop thinking about it), give me some new insights, exercises, a personalized game plan, and some accountability, I couldn’t say no to my body any longer. 

It wants to be faster, stronger, happier and healthier and who am I to stand in OUR way.

I could see in my minds eye a picture of my body in the best shape it’s probably ever been in with the exception of my early college years as a gym rat.

With a trainer there’s now an intensity to my workouts that really wasn’t there when I was doing it on my own watching YouTube workout videos, doing fitness DVD’s, or modeling other people I saw at the gym.

There’s now the accountability and consistency of holding to my workout & nutrition regimen that wasn’t there as much when I did it on my own. I can’t hide out when I have someone checkin’ in and seeing my progress or lack there of!

And there’s now some serious speed to the results I’m seeing because I’ve come out of my comfort zone, I’m trying new things, challenging my mind and body in ways I probably wouldn’t on my own, and my body is reflecting it quickly.

I’ve got definition, I’ve exchanged a little bit of body fat for lean muscle, my energy is steadily climbing, I’m eating better and at more proper intervals during my day, and I just feel better overall.

Is it a cake walk?

Nah, not so much…

But the speed, attention, inspiration & results I’ve been getting working with a trainer has been worth every moment that I’ve wanted to cuss them out (and sometimes I have) & give up. [Luckily they know I don't mean it]. 

There are times when I can’t keep going, but those times are few and far between and in our next session I’m always back in the game.

It’s certainly a challenge, but it’s a lifestyle change, and I love it! I love what’s happening to my body, I love when I feel my own power to “go hard,” I love my ever expanding confidence and my overall feeling of well being.

I feel like I’m adding years to my life and the value of that is simply priceless.

This isn’t some spiel about how you should go get a personal trainer even though I HIGHLY endorse that action…

The point is this, we can only go so far on our own, no matter what we’re doing.

Yes we’ve got spirit leading the way, but still no one gets there alone.

There are no self-made millionaires who actually made it there completely by themselves, period!

If you want to get where you’re going in business faster, get the personal attention you need, get the inspiration, expertise and accountability that keeps you on track and have that extra little push you need to get out of your comfort zone so you can be bigger & better, help more people & make more money, then it’s time to get yourself a coach.

Make sense?

Now’s the time…

I’m now accepting new 2015 private coaching clients. There are 5 spaces available.

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Whether you’re just starting out or you’ve been in the game a minute, if you’re still struggling to get off the ground or you’re tired of the feast and famine lifestyle then it’s time to uncover the solution. The Inner & Outer Soulution!

Send an email to jeejee@jeejeesaafir.com to claim your free 20 min. “2015 Fresh Start, Fast Results Discovery Session” to see how I can best serve you and if our vibe is right!

A year from now, don’t be wishing that you’d started today!

JeeJee

Happy Holidays from my heart to yours! (get your gift today)

Happy Holidays from my heart to yours!

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I’ve got a free gift for you. 

No it’s not a marketing plan.

No it’s not the insider secrets to getting your next client.

No it’s not about how to rock 2015, and make more money in your business.

This gift is about YOU!

However… these things may come to pass because of this powerful practice!

This is above and beyond all those things.

What I’m sharing is one of the most powerfully potent processes I’ve used to get through relationship problems, financial issues,
health issues, and most importantly to get in tune with who I really am…  and I want to share this special gift with you.

Get it here now. No opt-in. Completely free. Instantly download it now! Click Here

Have a fantabulous holiday season!

Talk to ya real soon!

I love you,

JeeJee

Got Entrepreneurial A.D.D.? Why Smart People Underperform and 5 Tips To Take Back Control courtesy of Marie Forleo and company!

Feeling busy & productive but completely overwhelmed and at the end of the day results seem to show you really didn’t accomplish much?

I know the feeling… 

Let’s turn that around.

In this video the talented Marie Forleo sits down with well known expert Dr. Ned Hallowell who helps people perform better, as they discuss tips on how to get back in control.

Dr. Ned says “with modern life the great thing is you can do so much, but the problem is… you can do so much“ 

Enjoy…

Lemme know what ya think!

Here are Dr. Ned’s nuggets of wisdom in a nutshell…

Read the rest of Got Entrepreneurial A.D.D.? Why Smart People Underperform and 5 Tips To Take Back Control courtesy of Marie Forleo and company!

1. Define & set clear goals. Establish your short-term, medium-term and “life-term” goals. Prioritize!

2. Avoid screen-sucking… You know you do it! It’s easy to get sucked into checking emails, social media, etc. Turn away!

3. Setting your default response to “Let me get back to you on that…” Stop overcommitting… Say nope to overwhelm!

4. Never worry alone. I would have a different take on this one but I get the intention. Who do you have in your life to turn to that will help you get solution focused and make a plan? Worrying can become toxic. Often you’ll find your worrying is pointless and unnecessary once you talk it through. You’re usually telling a “story” that’s not serving you.  Have a good coach, colleague or friend to turn to?

5. Cultivate Lillies and Get Rid of Leeches. Which people or projects are truly worth spending time with and on? Who and what are your “lillies.” Even though there may be challenges or some effort needed on your part over the course of time, who and what are the people and projects that just feel worth it, and which one’s don’t? This goes for your personal and professional life.

You think you’re less powerful than you are. Stop pretending! You can get back on track. You’ve got this!

And if you don’t here’s help.

Your coaches request:

Get out of overwhelm, get prioritized, and gain control of every day distractions that keep you from the clients, income and impact you want to make. Learn exactly how in my free audio: 30 Minutes to More Clients. If you’ve listened before, listen again. There is no better time than NOW. Let’s get things in order and get back in control.